Feelings we all have them
Feelings are a beautiful part of who we are yet we spend so much
time doing what we can to avoid them. As a child I was brought
up to be quiet keep your mouth shut, crying is for babies, anger
is just not happening and don’t scream as children should be
seen and not heard. Now did that have any affect on me? Yes of
course it did. And for a very long time I lived my life in a
non-feeling box.
Have you ever avoided tears, made excuses for crying in movies
or maybe when you have felt anger you just say within you “nice
girls don’t get angry and anger is wrong?” Over and over again I
meet so many people that, live their lives in the intellect.
Constantly searching outside themselves for their dreams and
avoiding where their dreams actually come from “within.”
Within you might say? Do you think that what is happening for
you has nothing to do with you? We are our thoughts we are
energy we attract all that is in our lives. How many
relationships have you gone through creating the same patterns?
Maybe abuse? Maybe the old hot and cold dance of intimacy. I
want you but as soon as you love me I will push you away. So if
this keeps happening in your life, what is the message you are
being told? Create, creation to create to manifest, so what it
is you are manifesting and how can you change this?
There is a whole world within you awaiting your exploration all
you have to do is take that first step and break through the
logical mind and boxes we have placed within us. Some call this
sabotage but for me I feel it is just conscious patterning. How
can we know a different way if you don’t have the mirrors to see
it. If a person has been brought up with no love and treated
cruelly how can this person know love if it has never been shown
to them. How then can we change these patterns? Well one key is
to start to become aware, aware that there is more to us than
meets the eye. Imagine your conscious and subconscious are like
ice burgs, when you look at an ice burg there is so little above
the water and so much underneath. The conscious is showing us
very little but the subconscious is where we store old tapes,
old patterns old hurts and until we open that door and go within
we will remain in the same habitual patterns. Logic is great as
long as it is balanced with the feelings and intuitiveness. So
how many of us go through life thinking our way through
everything? How many of you remain so busy that you do not allow
a quiet moment to feel? To listen and hear what is really
happening within you. Hurt is way of saying, feel me and heal
me. Embrace me and love me. Tears are beautiful and should be
allowed to be released. After a good cry we tend to feel lighter
and freer if we actually allow the tears, otherwise for some
crying can make us feel tight and horrible and we never want to
go there. We don’t feel safe and we judge it to be wrong because
it doesn’t feel good. If we were not meant to feel we wouldn’t
have feelings. If we were not meant to cry we wouldn’t have tear
ducts. Courage and self responsibility isn’t just about how
great you are in a job and how many friend you have it is about
being vulnerable enough to be real and say “I feel this” not
“you make me feel this” I would much rather cry and feel now
than let it manifest again in my body. Yes that is right were do
you think the feelings go if you don’t feel them? Why do you
think there is so much sickness, cancer, stress, and headaches.
It isn’t just the food it is our feelings and thoughts
manifesting in our bodies trying to tell us to slow down stop
and feel. Next time you are on a mission mode and running, stop
breath and ask yourself “how do I feel?” Balance is the key,
lets hope you use this key to open up your doorway to feelings
and love. http://home.iprimus.com.au/emelisa
